Friday, March 21, 2008

People should sometimes do things that they do not enjoy doing

Have you ever thought about the trend which has led you to become the person you are now? In which stages of your life you were the only one to decide? When was the time you just had to follow the rules imposed on you?

Obligation is the word which might seem unpleasant for the people whom all their attempts are directed to achieve freedom and there might be some people who feel the power to deny any rules. Although it is a doubtless right to be free, there exists a fact: obligation is not only a reality but also it can sometimes(of course sometimes!) be enjoyable in the end!
Do you know when the first obligation in your life happened? When your mother gave birth to you and nobody asked you whether you liked to be here or not… You were just crying…Are you upset about it now or appreciate it? Another situation out of your control is when you lose someone close. No one can describe the pain and the feeling, but after a while aren’t you a more mature person who pays attention to the deeper aspects of life?

The pain of out of control things sometimes brings us the sweetness of being profound. Life is full of dos and don’ts and maybe it is meaningless without them. So fight against the obligations to grow and accept them to relieve! It includes no contrast, both have the same aim : to make you a better human.

Sepide P
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